Supplemental Report:
Author:#32955 URBIGKEIT, CARLA Report Time:03/27/2019 14:30
Entered by:#32955 URBIGKEIT, CARLA Entered Time:03/27/2019 14:30
Narrative:
SP19072529
SUBJECT OF THIS REPORT:
Rape 1 ORS 163.375, Sodomy 1 ORS 163.405, Sex Abuse 1 ORS 163.427
Public Official Investigation
MENTIONED OFFICERS:
Matt Lawson, Lieutenant, Oregon State Police, MCS/Salem
Steve Hinkle, Sergeant, Oregon State Police, MCS/Salem
Carlos Barrientos, Detective, Oregon State Police, MCS/Salem
MENTIONED:
Camille Etheridge, Victim
Robert (aka: Bobby) Bomar, Suspect
MENTIONED OTHERS:
Sarah Sabri, Former girlfriend of Mr. Bomar
DISTRIBUTION:
Multnomah County District Attorney's Office, Attn: Nicole Bockelman
SUMMARY OF EVENTS:
On February 25, 2019 at approximately 2:58pm, Chief Jason Malloy
contacted me regarding an adult female in their office who is
reporting being raped by a police officer of Lincoln County. I was
told the allegations were against Bobby (Robert) Bomar, a Lincoln
City Police Sergeant. I was also advised the incident occurred in
Portland, Multnomah County, Oregon, on December 17, 2016 when Mr.
Bomar was off-duty. I contacted OSP Sergeant Steve Hinkle and OSP
Lieutenant Matt Lawson and advised of the allegation. I was
advised to proceed with the investigation and OSP Detective Carlos
Barrientos would be assisting.
ACTION TAKEN:
During the week of March 11, 2019, I was given information regarding
a former girlfriend of Bobby Bomar's who may have had a similar
experience with Mr. Bomar as Ms. Etheridge. On March 27, 2019, I
attempted to contact Sarah Sabri by telephone. Ms. Sabri had worked
in Lincoln County and had a serious relationship with Mr. Bomar
during 2006-2007. She said their relationship was not publicly
known due to their respective jobs. Ms. Sabri had been a Deputy
District Attorney and Mr. Bomar was employed at Lincoln City Police
Department. I had known Ms. Sabri professionally through the
Lincoln County District Attorney's office and I was told through
another law enforcement official about her relationship with Mr.
Bomar. At approximately 4:25pm, I received a call back from Ms.
Sabri. She remembered who I was and agreed to speak with me about
their relationship.
Ms. Sabri was very curious about the call and why I would be
interested in her relationship with Mr. Bomar. I advised Ms. Sabri
that I am investigating a female who has come forward alleging Mr.
Bomar sexual assaulted her while they were dating in 2016. I told
Ms. Sabri I had understood she had a serious relationship with Mr.
Bomar and may have observed or experienced odd behavior from Mr.
Bomar. Ms. Sabri did not hesitate saying she remembers Bobby not
being honest with her regarding his sexual activity while they were
dating. She dated Bobby from July 2006 until June 2007. Ms. Sabri
admits she was only 24 years old when they were dating and said she
was very naive. She told me now looking back on their relationship,
it was a toxic relationship for her and she would have broken up
with Bobby much earlier.
Early on she said Bobby acted like he was hiding things from her,
but then would try to convince her otherwise. She told me he kept
talking her out of making a big deal about him looking on dating web
sites while they were dating, or Ms. Sabri finding female clothing
at his house while they were dating. She said Bobby would say,
'it's my sisters' or 'it's my ex-wifes stuff' in explaining why
other female clothing was at his place. She gave me an example of
his dishonesty by telling me about how Bobby always using her
personal computer when he'd stay at her house. Ms. Sabri was
curious to what he was viewing and would check his browsing history
on her computer but found Bobby deleted the information. Ms. Sabri
felt this was odd because he was so secretive about it, so she
placed a 'Key Logger' on her computer. This enabled Ms. Sabri to
research Bobby's history during the times when he was on her
computer. It would also show Bobby's side of a conversation if he
was communicating with someone. She told me she doesn't think he
knew she did this, but was shocked at what she saw and what he was
doing. He had his profile on dating apps and had several
conversations, sexual in nature, with females and males, with him
saying how there is no one to date at the coast. When she
confronted him about the dating apps, he wouldn't answer her
questions. Sometimes he would tell her there was nothing to the
profile and she was making a big deal about it. Ms. Sabri told
Bobby he was hurting her feelings and he would respond by saying, 'I
never would want to hurt you'. Sometimes he would use taking his
'Ambien', as an excuse. Ms. Sabri told me she was convinced he was
also seeing men romantically. From her computer, she had identified
a man locally, intercepting Bobby's conversation with this man, but
did not approach Bobby about it. Ms. Sabri told me Bobby and her
would have unprotected sex since he had a vasectomy. She told me
when they finally did break up, she went to a gynecologist to get
tested for STD's, making sure she had not contracted anything.
Ms. Sabri then told me there was a time that sticks out in her mind.
She paused and told me she has had only two experiences in her
lifetime where things were foggy or she felt she was missing bits
and pieces of events. One of those experience was in a safe
environment when she was traveling with some girlfriends. She did
not remember the walk back to their hotel, but nothing questionable
happened to her. The other experience was with Bobby. She
proceeded to tell me the incident with Bobby that was fuzzy to her.
She told me it was early in the relationship, maybe August of 2006.
She told me she knew Bobby took Ambien to help him sleep and
admitted she didn't know much about the drug. One night she asked
him if she could try one because she hadn't been sleeping well.
Bobby gave her one of his Ambien. Ms. Sabri told me she and Bobby
began to have sex and she said "This was the part where it got
foggy". Ms. Sabri said she doesn't remember what happened once they
started having sex, but she woke up to being confident she had been
anally penetrated. Ms. Sabri told me the last thing she remembers
was her and Bobby fooling around, beginning to have vaginal sexual
intercourse, but then remembering nothing until waking up the next
morning feeling pressure and sensitivity in her rectum. Ms. Sabri
said she had never had anal sex before and has not had it since this
experience. She also said she has never taken another Ambien
either. She told me she didn't bring it up with Bobby and he didn't
mention it to her. I asked her why she didn't ask Bobby about it.
She told me she feels it was kind of on her since she asked for the
Ambien. She admits it was weird that Bobby didn't mention what he
had done. She admits she would've acted differently and not
tolerated it if that were to have happened today. I asked Ms. Sabri
if Bobby ever asked her if they could have anal sex. She told me
"No". She told me the closest he ever got to anal anything is when
he would fondle her bottom while having vaginal sex.
She told me she didn't truly realize how potent the Ambien was until
she told me about one night, late, where Bobby left several voice
messages on her phone regarding an 'accident' that happened. She
told me it was hard to understand what he was saying. He was
talking like he had been drinking and she knew he took Ambien. One
message would say he thinks he hurt himself. Another message said
he was fixing the molding in his house with a power tool and he cut
his fingers. Another message would say he's bleeding pretty bad.
Ms. Sabri told me he was talking gibberish, but she felt it was
serious so she called an ambulance to his house. He left another
voice message telling her he thinks he was going to the hospital.
When she responded to the hospital, the nurse told her she was
concerned as to why Bobby was so 'out of it'. The nurse said his
blood alcohol content was too low for him to be impaired. Ms. Sabri
told the nurse Bobby usually takes an Ambien at night and the nurse
then said 'Oh, that would do it'. Ms. Sabri told me if she would
have known about how potent Ambien was, she would have never asked
Bobby for one.
Ms. Sabri also told me about a time when a married couple from
Washington state came down to visit Bobby. She told me this couple
happened to be 'swingers' and Ms. Sabri told me Bobby was trying to
inquire if she'd be into that too. She told him she wasn't into
that. Ms. Sabri remembers at one point, the four of them drinking
then going into the hot tub. The couples were 'making out' with
their respective partners when she felt she was digitally
penetrated. She admits to being a bit buzzed from the alcohol and
at that moment, she stopped kissing Bobby and saw both of his hands.
She was confused about who was doing that to her and she got out of
the hot tub immediately. Ms. Sabri tried to get Bobby to explain
whose fingers those were inside of her and Bobby defended his
friend, saying it was "absurd" she was accusing his friend of that.
He would convince her she was too sensitive, jealous and
over-reacting. She told me if she hadn't been drinking she would
have left his house. The next morning, Ms. Sabri approached the
wife saying she wasn't on board with the 'swingers thing' and the
female told her 'okay, some people aren't into it'.
Ms. Sabri told me their relationship finally ended in June of 2017
when she came back from a Germany trip with her family. When she
got back, Ms. Sabri told me Bobby was acting weird and pretty much
told her he didn't have time for a relationship. Not long after
they broke up, Ms. Sabri received a job offer to be a Deputy
District Attorney in Lane County, so she accepted the job and moved
away from Lincoln County.
She told me she learned a lot of lessons from this relationship and
how awful and manipulating Bobby was. She told me if she would have
trusted herself more, she would have left him much earlier. She
also told me she went to counseling because of the relationship. In
fact, she said, Bobby recommended the same counselor he was seeing.
His ex-wife was also seeing this counselor.
CASE STATUS:
Case continues. Please refer to subsequent reports following this
report.
Detective Carla Urbigkeit #32955
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