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(Trigger Warning: Victim  Blaming)

WATCH / SURVIVING: Police launch self defense classes

• Jeremy C. Ruark newsguardeditor@countrymedia.net
• Jun 9, 2018 Updated Feb 15, 2019

"Be a warrior and don’t be a victim.

That is the theme of a free two-day women’s self defense class being conducted by the Lincoln City Police Department.

The first classes were held on May 19 and 20 at the Lincoln City Community Center.

“We teach women how not to be a victim, things they can do to make themselves safer, because it really comes down to awareness,” Lincoln City Police officer and self defense class instructor Summer Danneker said. “It’s a lot of fast choices you will need to make if you are going to defend yourself. There are no wrong decisions as long as women get thought a situation and they live. That is the important thing.”

The first day of class started out with a classroom discussion of how not to be a victim and provided tips and discussion on mental awareness, home safety, personal safety, vehicle safety, fraud and scams to be aware of, rape and sexual assault laws and also insight on the process of reporting and the cons of not reporting.

Mindset was a topic and choosing to fight or not fight was also discussed. Self-defense moves are then broken down and thought in pieces where the women get a chance to learn different blocks, strikes, punches, and kicks."

Danneker said once the women have the moves down then they get to practice them on striking pads/bags.

“The females are also taught distractionary techniques to help escape from being grabbed or attacked,” she said.

The techniques are practiced with a partner. The women also learned ground defense and learned to fight through an attack and get away safe.

On the second day, the women were put into four different scenarios. Lincoln City Officer Bobby Bomar and Officer Eric Anderson played the roles of the bad guys. Both officers and the women wore protective gear and padding.

Each scenario was a progression of what the students were taught throughout the weekend.

“The first scenario being that of a decision making situation and just needed to be safe, all the way to the fourth scenario that was a full on attack that they needed to escape from,” Danneker said.

Lincoln City resident Stacy Baiocchi said she is learning empowerment through the self defense class.

“My whole point was to come in and not feel like a victim and I wanted to feel empowered and not freeze up,” she said. “I want to survive and that is what I am getting from this class.”

Baiocchi said she has leaned different techniques in what to do to protect herself.

“Things that I never even considered and they are so effective,” she said. “I also had to evaluate situations and things to look for to be better observant.”

“I’ve learned to be prepared and I don’t have to be scared,” Rose Lodge resident Lisa Bagby said. “I live in the country. I don’t have close neighbors and I am scared of the dark. But his class has given me confidence and tools to be better prepared.”

Bagby said the class has shown her how to be better aware of people around her.

“f someone approaches me, it is OK to be loud,” she said. “And how to best defend myself.”

“I have learned that I am a warrior and not a victim,” Lincoln City resident Margaret Kilanski said. “And that is truly invaluable to me.”

Kilanski said the class teaches women to be a warrior and put their safety first.

“They teach us where the line is between reasonable restraint and getting out of a situation safe,” she said. “I have more physical strength and ability that I ever thought I had.”

“The transformation from day one to day two in the women’s abilities to fight and ward off an attacker are so apparent and develop so quickly that they are able to empower themselves and prove to themselves that they do not have to be a victim if put into a bad situation and choose to get away safely,” Danneker said.

Lincoln City Interim Police Chief Jerry Palmer said the class is an experiment and will be evaluated. Further class schedules have yet to be finalized.

“I believe it is going to work out to be very effective as word of this class circulates in the community,” he said.

Palmer said he is hopeful teen girls will want to take the opportunity to take the class as well.

“This is a great class for a vulnerable part of our society who often think they don’t have any recourse and this shows them that they have the ability to fight back if necessary," Palmer said.

For more information about the self defense classes, contact Lincoln City Police at the non-emergency phone number 541-994-3636.

 

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Women's Self-Defense Participants

Lincoln City Police Department

May 22, 2018 · 

Under the guidance of Officer Summer Danneker, and with the assistance of Det Jayne Johnson, Officer Bobby Bomar, and Officer Erik Anderson, LCPD hosted a very successful Women's Self-Defense class on May 19th & 20th.

 

 

FACEBOOK 2019 Camille Jones Etheridge discusses rectal bleeding and bruising from the bobby bomar roofie anal rape

 

FACEBOOK 2019
Camille Jones Etheridge I saw a psychologist after it happened. Here are her notes.Impressions:

a. I believe her. By the time Camille shared this experience with me, I had worked with her in psychotherapy for a year. During that time, I experienced her as forthright, honest, and willing to discuss hard things about her childhood without blaming anyone. She was angry with her mother, and open about it, but more than willing to accept responsibility for her own life and choices since then. I found Camille articulate, clear, and humble—a survivor who had developed a remarkable sense of integrity and diligence regardless of a rough upbringing. While she could be hard on herself, she maintained a sense of humor and inner goodness. She had worked hard to give her son a happy and safe life without depending on welfare. “I didn’t want him raised like I was raised”.

b. Motivation: Camille had nothing to gain and quite a bit to lose by reporting a sexual assault by a police officer who was well known in her community. It took courage, the same courage that she had developed surviving her difficult childhood, to file the report. Also, Camille’s report of her bewilderment and confusion about why Bobby would do this to her also supports her story. She liked him. She had every reason to believe that he liked her and would want to pursue a relationship with her. There is no motivation for a revenge report.

c. Her story has remained consistent over time. While she remembered a little more detail as she talked, she neither added to nor embellished her story. **She provided the types of insignificant/unnecessary detail that add credibility and believability in reporting assault:

-sitting up in bed after the assault (whether she sat up or not makes no difference in evaluating the credibility of the assault).

-Bobby had his back to her afterwards (again, an insignificant detail).

d. Camille did not attempt to “fill in the blanks”. She was comfortable telling what she remembered, and comfortable letting the blanks in memory be there.

This is also consistent with being drugged. Memory can be completely blank in some areas, but quite vivid, momentarily, in others. This is sometimes called “fragmented memory”. Also, something like a sexual assault is seared into the brain, grips one’s attention, and is more apt to be remembered in some detail, even when drugged.

e. Camille’s report of her symptoms after the second sip of her drink matches symptoms of the so called “date rape” drugs, especially GHB (sweating, nausea with a fairly quick onset, faster than Rohypnol). Camille is not sophisticated medically and would not have known what symptoms to “make up” if she was fabricating.

f. Camille genuinely struggled with her effort to regain her memory of events that night, even hoping for “camera evidence”. This is strong support for victim veracity. Assault victims who are fabricating would never suggest looking for cameras that might provide evidence of an event that didn’t happen.

g. Physical evidence. The medical report speaks for itself—rectal tearing and bruising, along with her other symptoms, are consistent with trauma to the rectum.

Final Comments:

Camille delayed reporting this incident for about two months, a time frame that is common among assault victims today. During this period, victims typically think they can “put it out of their minds”; they struggle with potential consequences if they report; and they eventually come to realize that “this isn’t going to go away or get better”. Their anger and sense of betrayal only increases, especially if they are facing reminders of the event (intrusive memories, preoccupation, difficulty concentrating, physical symptoms, etc.). Camille experienced all of this.

Finally, while Camille and Bobby had initially gone on a date, this must not be construed as “date rape”. Camille did consent to go on an overnight date with Bobby. She did consent to stay in a hotel with him. But she most certainly did not consent to having her anus penetrated while she was unconscious. There is nothing ‘date-like’ about having an expectation of a fun night out, then being drugged and waking up in pain with a man you thought you could trust penetrating your anus until it bled. It was a violent sexual assault that has left physical and emotional scars—by someone who meets the qualifications of a violent sex offender.

 

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Sarah Sabri also drugged and anally raped bobby bomar (Caution: Serial Abuser)

 

Supplemental Report:
      Author:#32955 URBIGKEIT, CARLA Report Time:03/27/2019 14:30
      Entered by:#32955 URBIGKEIT, CARLA Entered Time:03/27/2019 14:30
      Narrative:
            SP19072529
             
             
            SUBJECT OF THIS REPORT:
              Rape 1 ORS 163.375, Sodomy 1 ORS 163.405, Sex Abuse 1 ORS 163.427
              Public Official Investigation 

            MENTIONED OFFICERS:
            Matt Lawson, Lieutenant, Oregon State Police, MCS/Salem
            Steve Hinkle, Sergeant, Oregon State Police, MCS/Salem
            Carlos Barrientos, Detective, Oregon State Police, MCS/Salem
             
            MENTIONED:
            Camille Etheridge, Victim
            Robert (aka: Bobby) Bomar, Suspect
             
            MENTIONED OTHERS:
            Sarah Sabri, Former girlfriend of Mr. Bomar
             
            DISTRIBUTION:
            Multnomah County District Attorney's Office, Attn: Nicole Bockelman
             
            SUMMARY OF EVENTS:
            On February 25, 2019 at approximately 2:58pm, Chief Jason Malloy 
            contacted me regarding an adult female in their office who is 
            reporting being raped by a police officer of Lincoln County.  I was 
            told the allegations were against Bobby (Robert) Bomar, a Lincoln 
            City Police Sergeant.  I was also advised the incident occurred in 
            Portland, Multnomah County, Oregon, on December 17, 2016 when Mr. 
            Bomar was off-duty.  I contacted OSP Sergeant Steve Hinkle and OSP 
            Lieutenant Matt Lawson and advised of the allegation.   I was 
            advised to proceed with the investigation and OSP Detective Carlos 
            Barrientos would be assisting.
             
            ACTION TAKEN:
            During the week of March 11, 2019, I was given information regarding 
            a former girlfriend of Bobby Bomar's who may have had a similar 
            experience with Mr. Bomar as Ms. Etheridge.  On March 27, 2019, I 
            attempted to contact Sarah Sabri by telephone.  Ms. Sabri had worked 
            in Lincoln County and had a serious relationship with Mr. Bomar 
            during 2006-2007.  She said their relationship was not publicly 
            known due to their respective jobs.  Ms. Sabri had been a Deputy 
            District Attorney and Mr. Bomar was employed at Lincoln City Police 
            Department.  I had known Ms. Sabri professionally through the 
            Lincoln County District Attorney's office and I was told through 
            another law enforcement official about her relationship with Mr. 
            Bomar.  At approximately 4:25pm, I received a call back from Ms. 
            Sabri.  She remembered who I was and agreed to speak with me about 
            their relationship.  
             
            Ms. Sabri was very curious about the call and why I would be 
            interested in her relationship with Mr. Bomar.  I advised Ms. Sabri 
            that I am investigating a female who has come forward alleging Mr. 
            Bomar sexual assaulted her while they were dating in 2016.  I told 
            Ms. Sabri I had understood she had a serious relationship with Mr. 
            Bomar and may have observed or experienced odd behavior from Mr. 
            Bomar.  Ms. Sabri did not hesitate saying she remembers Bobby not 
            being honest with her regarding his sexual activity while they were 
            dating.  She dated Bobby from July 2006 until June 2007.  Ms. Sabri 
            admits she was only 24 years old when they were dating and said she 
            was very naive.  She told me now looking back on their relationship, 
            it was a toxic relationship for her and she would have broken up 
            with Bobby much earlier. 
             
            Early on she said Bobby acted like he was hiding things from her, 
            but then would try to convince her otherwise.  She told me he kept 
            talking her out of making a big deal about him looking on dating web 
            sites while they were dating, or Ms. Sabri finding female clothing 
            at his house while they were dating.  She said Bobby would say, 
            'it's my sisters' or 'it's my ex-wifes stuff' in explaining why 
            other female clothing was at his place.  She gave me an example of 
            his dishonesty by telling me about how Bobby always using her 
            personal computer when he'd stay at her house.  Ms. Sabri was 
            curious to what he was viewing and would check his browsing history 
            on her computer but found Bobby deleted the information.  Ms. Sabri 
            felt this was odd because he was so secretive about it, so she 
            placed a 'Key Logger' on her computer.  This enabled Ms. Sabri to 
            research Bobby's history during the times when he was on her 
            computer.  It would also show Bobby's side of a conversation if he 
            was communicating with someone.  She told me she doesn't think he 
            knew she did this, but was shocked at what she saw and what he was 
            doing.  He had his profile on dating apps and had several 
            conversations, sexual in nature, with females and males, with him 
            saying how there is no one to date at the coast.  When she 
            confronted him about the dating apps, he wouldn't answer her 
            questions.  Sometimes he would tell her there was nothing to the 
            profile and she was making a big deal about it.  Ms. Sabri told 
            Bobby he was hurting her feelings and he would respond by saying, 'I 
            never would want to hurt you'.  Sometimes he would use taking his 
            'Ambien', as an excuse.   Ms. Sabri told me she was convinced he was 
            also seeing men romantically.  From her computer, she had identified 
            a man locally, intercepting Bobby's conversation with this man, but 
            did not approach Bobby about it.  Ms. Sabri told me Bobby and her 
            would have unprotected sex since he had a vasectomy.  She told me 
            when they finally did break up, she went to a gynecologist to get 
            tested for STD's, making sure she had not contracted anything.  
             
            Ms. Sabri then told me there was a time that sticks out in her mind. 
             She paused and told me she has had only two experiences in her 
            lifetime where things were foggy or she felt she was missing bits 
            and pieces of events.  One of those experience was in a safe 
            environment when she was traveling with some girlfriends.  She did 
            not remember the walk back to their hotel, but nothing questionable 
            happened to her.  The other experience was with Bobby.  She 
            proceeded to tell me the incident with Bobby that was fuzzy to her.  
            She told me it was early in the relationship, maybe August of 2006.  
            She told me she knew Bobby took Ambien to help him sleep and 
            admitted she didn't know much about the drug.  One night she asked 
            him if she could try one because she hadn't been sleeping well.  
            Bobby gave her one of his Ambien.  Ms. Sabri told me she and Bobby 
            began to have sex and she said "This was the part where it got 
            foggy".  Ms. Sabri said she doesn't remember what happened once they 
            started having sex, but she woke up to being confident she had been 
            anally penetrated.  Ms. Sabri told me the last thing she remembers 
            was her and Bobby fooling around, beginning to have vaginal sexual 
            intercourse, but then remembering nothing until waking up the next 
            morning feeling pressure and sensitivity in her rectum.  Ms. Sabri 
            said she had never had anal sex before and has not had it since this 
            experience.  She also said she has never taken another Ambien 
            either.  She told me she didn't bring it up with Bobby and he didn't 
            mention it to her.  I asked her why she didn't ask Bobby about it.  
            She told me she feels it was kind of on her since she asked for the 
            Ambien.  She admits it was weird that Bobby didn't mention what he 
            had done.  She admits she would've acted differently and not 
            tolerated it if that were to have happened today.  I asked Ms. Sabri 
            if Bobby ever asked her if they could have anal sex.  She told me 
            "No".  She told me the closest he ever got to anal anything is when 
            he would fondle her bottom while having vaginal sex. 
             
            She told me she didn't truly realize how potent the Ambien was until 
            she told me about one night, late, where Bobby left several voice 
            messages on her phone regarding an 'accident' that happened.  She 
            told me it was hard to understand what he was saying.  He was 
            talking like he had been drinking and she knew he took Ambien.  One 
            message would say he thinks he hurt himself.  Another message said 
            he was fixing the molding in his house with a power tool and he cut 
            his fingers.  Another message would say he's bleeding pretty bad.  
            Ms. Sabri told me he was talking gibberish, but she felt it was 
            serious so she called an ambulance to his house.  He left another 
            voice message telling her he thinks he was going to the hospital.  
            When she responded to the hospital, the nurse told her she was 
            concerned as to why Bobby was so 'out of it'.  The nurse said his 
            blood alcohol content was too low for him to be impaired.  Ms. Sabri 
            told the nurse Bobby usually takes an Ambien at night and the nurse 
            then said 'Oh, that would do it'.  Ms. Sabri told me if she would 
            have known about how potent Ambien was, she would have never asked 
            Bobby for one.     
             
            Ms. Sabri also told me about a time when a married couple from 
            Washington state came down to visit Bobby.  She told me this couple 
            happened to be 'swingers' and Ms. Sabri told me Bobby was trying to 
            inquire if she'd be into that too.  She told him she wasn't into 
            that.  Ms. Sabri remembers at one point, the four of them drinking 
            then going into the hot tub.  The couples were 'making out' with 
            their respective partners when she felt she was digitally 
            penetrated.  She admits to being a bit buzzed from the alcohol and 
            at that moment, she stopped kissing Bobby and saw both of his hands. 
             She was confused about who was doing that to her and she got out of 
            the hot tub immediately.  Ms. Sabri tried to get Bobby to explain 
            whose fingers those were inside of her and Bobby defended his 
            friend, saying it was "absurd" she was accusing his friend of that.  
             He would convince her she was too sensitive, jealous and 
            over-reacting.  She told me if she hadn't been drinking she would 
            have left his house.  The next morning, Ms. Sabri approached the 
            wife saying she wasn't on board with the 'swingers thing' and the 
            female told her 'okay, some people aren't into it'.    
             
            Ms. Sabri told me their relationship finally ended in June of 2017 
            when she came back from a Germany trip with her family.  When she 
            got back, Ms. Sabri told me Bobby was acting weird and pretty much 
            told her he didn't have time for a relationship.  Not long after 
            they broke up, Ms. Sabri received a job offer to be a Deputy 
            District Attorney in Lane County, so she accepted the job and moved 
            away from Lincoln County.  
             
            She told me she learned a lot of lessons from this relationship and 
            how awful and manipulating Bobby was.  She told me if she would have 
            trusted herself more, she would have left him much earlier.  She 
            also told me she went to counseling because of the relationship.  In 
            fact, she said, Bobby recommended the same counselor he was seeing.  
            His ex-wife was also seeing this counselor.     
              
             
            CASE STATUS:
            Case continues.  Please refer to subsequent reports following this 
            report.
             
             
            Detective Carla Urbigkeit #32955
            
             
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bobby bomar confronted on the anal rape

 

Camille Etheridge @CamilleEtherid1 "Just want to keep this story going."

Just want to keep this story going. https://t.co/IgxdswXcOZ

— Camille Etheridge (@CamilleEtherid1) September 29, 2019

facebook on ----- bobby bomar's Multnomah DA non-prosecution agreement

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Lincoln City Homepage

May 18, 2019 · 

NEW DETAILS: The Multnomah County District Attorney’s Office has decided not to pursue allegations of felony sodomy, rape and sex abuse against a Lincoln City Police officer following an investigation by Oregon State Police.

According to an OSP report filed Feb. 27, 2019, Camille Etheridge, 44, of Neotsu, alleges that Sgt. Robert “Bobby” Bomar, 54, drugged and performed anal sex on her while she was incoherent in a Portland hotel room in December 2016.

The Multnomah County District Attorney’s Office has decided not to pursue allegations of felony sodomy, rape and sex abuse against a Lincoln City Police officer following an investigation by Oregon State Police.

LINCOLNCITYHOMEPAGE.COM

NEW DETAILS: DA won't pursue sex abuse allegations against Lincoln City Police officer

The Multnomah County District Attorney’s Office has decided not to pursue allegations of felony sodomy, rape and sex abuse against a Lincoln City Police officer following an investigation by Oregon State Police.

Bomar promoted to sergeant with Lincoln City Police Department By Homepage Staff September 26, 2018

 https://lincolncityhomepage.com/bomar-promoted-to-sergeant-with-lincoln-city-police-department/

Officer Robert “Bobby” Bomar was sworn in Tuesday as sergeant with the Lincoln City Police Department during a ceremony at City Hall.

With his promotion, Bomar said he hopes to continue the solid and trusting relationship he has built with the community and to provide supported mentoring for his fellow officers.

Bomar said he is honored to join LCPD’s leadership team. His said his goal is to contribute to a positive environment that encourages the retention of new and current officers, offering them a place where they desire to work.

Bomar, whose law enforcement career spans over 24 years, has been with LCPD since 2005. After completing enlistment with the Army, his initial goal was to work in the medic/firefighting field.

While employed with a private company performing loss prevention around Portland and Salem, he worked closely with law enforcement and became a reserve officer with the Gervais Police Department in 1994. He said he enjoyed the work so much he decided to pursue a law enforcement career.

After spending one year in Gervais, he was hired by the Newport Police Department in 1995. He spent 10 years there before joining LCPD in 2005.

During his career he has served as a Field Training Officer, a Bicycle Enforcement Officer, a Defensive Tactics instructor, a SWAT Officer and in the offices of the president and vice president for the Lincoln City Police Employees Association.

Bomar has been recognized for his service with numerous letters of commendation. In 2016, he received the Life Saving Award from the Oregon Police Officer Association.